Saturday, October 22, 2011

Chinese language - Tips on Learning to Speak Chinese


More and more gentlemen on Chnlove are interested in learning Chinese. Maybe, they want to give better and deep impression to their Chinese girl by speaking their language. It's wonderful! Here we will give you some fundamental tips you should know when starting to learn the Chinese language. Some people said Chinese is one of the hardest languages to master but this article will help you get started on your journey to learning Chinese.

Learning Chinese, like pleasing your Chinese girlfriend, is going to take some time and effort. Chinese gets a "bad rap" as being one of the most difficult languages to learn. However, there are also reasons why learning Chinese may actually be EASIER than learning a language such as English, Spanish or French. Whenyou've decided to learn Chinese for dating Chinese girl, here are some things you expect:

1. No Verb Conjugations - That's right! The Chinese language does not require verb conjugations. For example, the Chinese word in pinyin for "to be" is "shi", pronounced "shir". To say "I am" is "Wo shi" (pronounced "Wor shir"). To say "He is" would be "Ta shi" (pronounced "Tah shir"). Notice the verb "to be" or "shi" has not changed form whatsoever. This is how all verbs in Chinese are and this makes learning new verbs much easier, because you don't need to concern yourself with multiple variations of each verb.

2. No Verb Tenses - Verbs in Chinese do not change form based on the tense you are using. Contrast this with English where we would say "I go" versus "I went". In English, Spanish, French and most languages, the actual verb form changes, sometimes very drastically, based on when the action took place. In Chinese, this is not the case. To say "I go" would be "Wo qu" (pronounced "Wor choo"). To say "I went" would be "Wo qu le" (pronounced "Wor choo le"). Notice the "le" at the end of the sentence, which indicates that the action is in the past. However, the verb itself "qu" has not changed. Regardless of whether you are doing an action now, in the past or in the future, Chinese does not require you to modify the verb form.

3. No Gender Nouns - Gender nouns are a common component in some languages such as Spanish and French. There are no gender nouns in Chinese.

4. Chinese Grammar is Relatively Simple - A sentence in English such as, "I want to go to the beach" in Chinese would be translated as "I want go beach". There are rarely any "extra" words used such as "to", "the", etc. Many beginners learning Chinese take a while to get used to speaking so straightforward and without these words so common in other languages.

Then, you must be asking yourself... So if that's all true, then why do people say it's so hard to learn Chinese!?! Learning Chinese does have its challenges. These challenges include:

1. Characters Instead of an Alphabet - The Chinese language is composed of over 30,000 characters, although only a few thousand are really necessary to learn for daily conversation. While Chinese has something called "radicals" which do make up characters, there is no alphabet in the standard sense of the word. This can make learning Chinese more difficult because you won't be able to use reading as a way to learn to speak. For example, if you know English and have a basic concept of how Spanish is pronounced, you could pick up any book and begin to read it. You may not know what the meaning is, but at least you can read and pronounce what is on paper. Chinese however is not like this. If you haven't specifically memorized the character you are reading, you don't know it and cannot say it. Therefore, it is impossible for a beginner to pick up a piece of paper and read the Chinese characters on it. This is why many people learn to speak Chinese quite well, yet can't read and write Chinese characters.

2. Tones - Chinese is a tonal language, meaning that the pronunciation of the word affects its meaning. This can be tricky to those who have not grown up with a tonal language as their mother tounge. There are examples such as "ma" which can mean "mother", "horse", "port" and a few other things just by changing the tone. While tones are important and certainly a challenge, don't let this be an excuse not to learn Chinese. The more familiar you become with the language the more straightforward speaking with the proper tones will become. Now that you have a primer on the Chinese language if you didn't already, don't wait to begin or continue your Chinese language study!

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Friday, October 14, 2011

Dating Chinese Girls Do's and Don'ts

Dating Chinese Girls Do's and Don'ts
This article was provided by one of Chnlove Male member. He wants to share his points of view on dating Chinese girls. Do you agree with him?

Due to cultural differences, dating a Chinese girl can be a battle at the best of times. Haveing dated a fair few Chinese girls I am so often asked what a guy should and shouldn't do on a date with a Chinese girl. So, I decided to write this short article on the do's and don'ts on a date with a Chinese female.

Do:
1. Be polite and gentlemanly on the first few dates until she reveals her true character to you. Some Chinese women really have a desire for the difference a westerner provides in a relationship; so, if you are simply like Chinese guys she has dated before it will bore her.

2. Compliment her on her clothing or hairstyle. Many Chinese women have simply made the effort with their appearance for you, even if it's unclear that it is a possibly romantic date they are going on, they will still care about their appearance in front of you. You commenting on her appearance says you notice things that other men possibly don't. This puts you in a strong position.

3. Be prepared to take the lead in the conversation unless she shows you she wishes otherwise. Many Chinese females are quite reserved on the first date and even quite a few subsequent ones. They rarely open up quickly unless they are a certain type of Chinese female.

Don't:
1. Be over-confident; most Chinese people consider modesty to be a virtue in a male. I hear complaints from Chinese women all the time about dates they've been on where the guy couldn't stop singing his own praises. Confidence may equal irritation and attraction in a western female, but this doesn't translate in a Chinese girl very often.

2. Expect to get anywhere fast. In truth if a Chinese girl had wished 'something' to happen she would have invited herself around to your house instead of going out with you. The fact that she is going out on a date with you shows she wants to see you jump through a few hoops first. This can take some time dependent on the girl in question.

3. Make the assumption she will contact you to arrange the next date. That's your job!

This list is by far incomplete, there are just so many points and nuances, situational and otherwise, that it's just not possible to list all of them in an article of this length. An understanding of cultural background and the Chinese female psychology is also vital to ensure success!

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Thursday, September 29, 2011

Enhance Your Online Dating Experience with Chinese Women

Dating Charming Chinese women
The Internet not only provides a powerful communication medium when you are involved in an online dating relationship with Chinese women. It can also help to enhance the entertainment that you and your Chinese girlfriend can experience together. Using some fun games and high-speed tools, you can not only use the Chnlove to send EMF mails, but you can use it for a large variety of other purposes as well.

Here are a few ideas for helping you maximize your Internet connection so that you can truly connect with your loved Chinese girl.

1. Photos
Of course, the most obvious way to use the Internet when you are involved in a relationship is to send photos back and forth to one another. Photos not only help to connect the two of you, but they also help to break the ice. If you're capable of using photo editing software, then dress your loved one's photos up with fun colors or images. The change will make the two of you laugh and shows a bit of affection.

2. Games
There are a plethora of fun games available on the Internet. These games can often be played by two or more people, making them the ideal way to challenge each other to think differently and capitalize off of the online forum. you can find fun Internet games either on game specialty Web sites or through instant messaging services!

3. Video
With a small investment into a Web cam, you can observed your loved Chinese girlfriend via video camera. You can talk as if you are talking face to face either by connecting via the phone or attaching a microphone to your computer. Remember to look at the camera while you are speaking. While it is somewhat awkward to stare directly at a camera while talking, you will find that it will appear as if you are looking directly at your loved one.

4. Movies
There are many Web sites that offer movies and music that you can stream into your system. If the two of you watch the move simultaneously, you will find that it is almost the same experience as going out to a movie together…almost. You can chat via phone or Internet telephone about what is going on in the movie and even recommend certain movies to one another.

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