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| You've Met Your Perfect Chinese Lady, Then What to Do Next? |
1. It's time to get together, - Think "where"?
Unless your Chinese lady has already travelled to your country brfore, you can almost bet that you are going to have to come to China for that first meeting If you're from the USA, Canada, Australia, the UK and even the EU, you are going to have a very difficult time arranging a visitors visa in order for her to come to see you. And Whether you go to China or she comes to you, you are likely going to have to pay the costs, because she may not have the resources you have. There are very few Chinese women have "travel the world" kind of money.
So, if you have to pay anyway, then come and see China, soak in the culture, meet her whole family, see if this is a place you like and if she is you special one, you'll now at least know if you really do wish to pursue a Chinese lady for your lifemate.
2. When you decided you're headed for China, how do you get there?
Getting to China from anywhere in the 1st world is not difficult, and usually surprisingly inexpensive if you plan ahead and look for bargains. You may read article in "Meeting in person" section in Chnlove dating tips area, which will tell you everything you might possibly need - Checklist, Practical information, Transport and Accommodation, Visa arrangement, ect.
3. Come, see, and you've conquered.
The Chinese lady you met is perfect. Her family and China are also great. So now, hand in hand, you're going to return home and see how she likes it there - NOT! You will eventually get her a visa to visit your home country, but you will not get it quickly and not easily.
Please read another article in Chnlove tips area entitled "Guides to bring your fiancee to US" . It is about bring your Chinese bride to USA, but to Europe or Oceana is even easier, so its helpful for everyone.
4. Ok. I can't get her home quickly, what next?
If you're made of money, or comfortably retired, you can move to China and wait it out. You can live here for less than back home, then you and your new Chinese bride can see lots of China, get to really know each other, and work on that visa that will take about 6 to 18 months before she can accompany you back home. Yes, at present most countries have what is called a "Fiance Visa" and that usually is the most sensible one and easiest one to obtain.
Of course, if, like most people, you are a normally employed guy, you will have to head home and work on it from there. Settle in for a "long distance relationship" that involves a lot of phone calls, a lot of email, and a lot of missing each other.
We know many people can't cut a long distance relationship, but we highly recommend it. Getting together after all that yearning that will add much sweetness. So we hope you don't treat your quest for a beautiful Chinese woman as a romp on the internet. Treat it as the beginning of a lifelong adventure. If you succeed in finding your lifemate on Chnlove, you life will never be the same again. Action now!