You've Met Your Perfect Chinese Lady, Then What to Do Next?



You've Met Your Perfect Chinese Lady, Then What to Do Next?

You've taken the giant step of joining Chnlove.com to pursue your dream of finding your Chinese bride, and you've spent a lot of time and effort meeting, messaging and chatting with all number of potential daters, good and bad, and now you've found her - Your perfect Chinese lady. You're sure she's the one, and she feels the same way about you.. Then what to do next? Please follow our tips:

1. It's time to get together, - Think "where"?
Unless your Chinese lady has already travelled to your country brfore, you can almost bet that you are going to have to come to China for that first meeting If you're from the USA, Canada, Australia, the UK and even the EU, you are going to have a very difficult time arranging a visitors visa in order for her to come to see you. And Whether you go to China or she comes to you, you are likely going to have to pay the costs, because she may not have the resources you have. There are very few Chinese women have "travel the world" kind of money.

So, if you have to pay anyway, then come and see China, soak in the culture, meet her whole family, see if this is a place you like and if she is you special one, you'll now at least know if you really do wish to pursue a Chinese lady for your lifemate.

2. When you decided you're headed for China, how do you get there?
Getting to China from anywhere in the 1st world is not difficult, and usually surprisingly inexpensive if you plan ahead and look for bargains. You may read article in "Meeting in person" section in Chnlove dating tips area, which will tell you everything you might possibly need - Checklist, Practical information, Transport and Accommodation, Visa arrangement, ect.

3. Come, see, and you've conquered.
The Chinese lady you met is perfect. Her family and China are also great. So now, hand in hand, you're going to return home and see how she likes it there - NOT! You will eventually get her a visa to visit your home country, but you will not get it quickly and not easily.

Please read another article in Chnlove tips area entitled "Guides to bring your fiancee to US" . It is about bring your Chinese bride to USA, but to Europe or Oceana is even easier, so its helpful for everyone.

4. Ok. I can't get her home quickly, what next?
If you're made of money, or comfortably retired, you can move to China and wait it out. You can live here for less than back home, then you and your new Chinese bride can see lots of China, get to really know each other, and work on that visa that will take about 6 to 18 months before she can accompany you back home. Yes, at present most countries have what is called a "Fiance Visa" and that usually is the most sensible one and easiest one to obtain.

Of course, if, like most people, you are a normally employed guy, you will have to head home and work on it from there. Settle in for a "long distance relationship" that involves a lot of phone calls, a lot of email, and a lot of missing each other.

We know many people can't cut a long distance relationship, but we highly recommend it. Getting together after all that yearning that will add much sweetness. So we hope you don't treat your quest for a beautiful Chinese woman as a romp on the internet. Treat it as the beginning of a lifelong adventure. If you succeed in finding your lifemate on Chnlove, you life will never be the same again. Action now!

Traditional Chinese Festival - Double Seventh Day is Approaching Quickly!

Double Seventh Day

The Qixi Festival, literally "Double Seventh Day", also known as the Magpie Festival, falls on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month of the Chinese calendar, thus its name. It is sometimes called the Chinese Valentine's Day since the late 1990s. Young girls traditionally demonstrate their domestic arts, especially melon carving, on this day and make wishes for a good husband.


This year, the festival falls on August 6. In the late summer, the stars Altair and Vega are high in the night sky, and the Chinese tell the following love story:

A young cowherd, Niulang, came across a beautiful girl, Zhinü (literally "the weaver girl"), the seventh daughter of the Goddess, who had just escaped from boring heaven to look for fun. The naughty princess soon fell in love with Niulang, and they married without the knowledge of the Goddess. They lived happily and had two children. However, the Goddess of Heaven found out that Zhinü, a fairy girl, had married a mere mortal. The Goddess was furious and ordered Zhinü to return to heaven. On Earth, Niulang was very upset that his wife had disappeared. Suddenly, his ox told him that if he killed it and put on its hide, he would be able to go up to Heaven to find his wife. So he killed the ox and carried his two beloved children off to Heaven to find Zhinü. The Goddess found out and was very angry. Taking out her hairpin, she scratched a wide river in the sky to separate the two lovers forever, thus forming the Milky Way between Altair and Vega.

Once a year all the magpies in the world would take pity on them and fly up to heaven to form a bridge, "the bridge of magpies", over the star Deneb in the Cygnus constellation so that the lovers can be together for a single night, on the seventh night of the seventh moon.

Does Niulang and Zhinü’s situation resemble that of you and your Chinese lady? They are separated by distance and so are you. Think again, you have something they did not have. Cherish what you have with your other half. Don’t take life for granted. Although there is physically a long distance between you and your lady, you can overcome this distance by bringing yourself closer to her – call her, chat to her, write to her, gifts for her– use our online communication tools!

Live Chat Out Now on Chnlove

Another of our wonderful services - Live Chat - is out now on Chnlove! You can now chat live with your Chinese lady with this instant messaging service! If you're worried about communication problems, don't worry. With Live Chat, ladies and gentlemen can communicate with one another with no language barriers. With the help of our translators, you can have a trouble-free chat session as they are connected in a three-way conversation with you and your lady.

Try Live Chat now and chat with her on a real-time basis in an easy and effective way! Click here to find out how Live Chat works and its charges. We look forward to redefining your relationship with Chnlove and helping you change the way you communicate with the Chinese ladies.
 

Chnlove Tips: Importance of Good Online Dating Profile

When reviewing profiles of Chnlove, we are regretted to find that some gentlemen have posted a empty profile or some profiles are too simple just stating they want to meet a Chinese woman. Do not they know that their profiles are the best advert? Here we'd like to share our opinion on the importance of good online dating profile.

If you're serious about finding a suitable Chinese woman online then please do not ignore importance of your online dating profile on Chnlove. Your dating profile is critical to making a good first impression, which is a first step to increase the number of letters from our Chinese lady member, and at the same time, your dating profile can improve communication quality with other singles because well created dating profile should tell other what kind of person you would like to meet.

If you want to increase the number of letters, you should use "eyes-catching" subject header for you dating profile. For example, it is recommended to start your profile description with love quote, greeting, joke or something from your heart. However, hundreds of letter does not mean quality. You can't date 100 Chinese women at once. Well-created dating profile will help you to get fewer responses but they will be more interesting for you.

Think, if you make your Chnlove online dating profile too simple just stating a bit about yourself and not specifying what kinds of Chinese women you want to meet in terms of age, distance, likes, dislikes, etc., then your inbox would probably flooded with messages from people you wouldn't even want to meet. This happens very often because when browsing empty profile with nice photo, then some Chinese women may think that they must try to contact you because everyone has a chance…

But if your Chnlove profile states requirements person should meet to become your date it will force to think about their chances. Sometimes small details could be decisive. In example you like pets, while other person have allergy, you like sitting at home while other member like pubs and night clubs, often such small details could stay invisible until first date or even first month of relationship… So by pointing out your preferences in your dating profile you can save plenty of time. Dating profile should tell as much as possible about your interests.

A good Chnlove online dating profile also needs to contain what actions would you want Chinese women to take; what exactly are those actions that are okay by you and even actions that are not. This will increase the number of letters receive from people of your same wavelength and people you are interested to meet.

In short, dating profile is best area, which you can edit to increase the number of quality contacts when you use dating service. So now, are you still like to post a incomplete and boring profile? Back to Chnlove to polish your profile as soon as possible!

To know more about how you can create a great dating profile, please read: Polish Your Profile