Dating Chinese Girls Do's and Don'ts

Dating Chinese Girls Do's and Don'ts

This article was provided by one of Chnlove Male member. He wants to share his points of view on dating Chinese girls. Do you agree with him?

Due to cultural differences, dating a Chinese girl can be a battle at the best of times. Haveing dated a fair few Chinese girls I am so often asked what a guy should and shouldn't do on a date with a Chinese girl. So, I decided to write this short article on the do's and don'ts on a date with a Chinese female.

Do:
1. Be polite and gentlemanly on the first few dates until she reveals her true character to you. Some Chinese women really have a desire for the difference a westerner provides in a relationship; so, if you are simply like Chinese guys she has dated before it will bore her.

2. Compliment her on her clothing or hairstyle. Many Chinese women have simply made the effort with their appearance for you, even if it's unclear that it is a possibly romantic date they are going on, they will still care about their appearance in front of you. You commenting on her appearance says you notice things that other men possibly don't. This puts you in a strong position.

3. Be prepared to take the lead in the conversation unless she shows you she wishes otherwise. Many Chinese females are quite reserved on the first date and even quite a few subsequent ones. They rarely open up quickly unless they are a certain type of Chinese female.

Don't:
1. Be over-confident; most Chinese people consider modesty to be a virtue in a male. I hear complaints from Chinese women all the time about dates they've been on where the guy couldn't stop singing his own praises. Confidence may equal irritation and attraction in a western female, but this doesn't translate in a Chinese girl very often.

2. Expect to get anywhere fast. In truth if a Chinese girl had wished 'something' to happen she would have invited herself around to your house instead of going out with you. The fact that she is going out on a date with you shows she wants to see you jump through a few hoops first. This can take some time dependent on the girl in question.

3. Make the assumption she will contact you to arrange the next date. That's your job!

This list is by far incomplete, there are just so many points and nuances, situational and otherwise, that it's just not possible to list all of them in an article of this length. An understanding of cultural background and the Chinese female psychology is also vital to ensure success!

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Enhance Your Online Dating Experience with Chinese Women

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The Internet not only provides a powerful communication medium when you are involved in an online dating relationship with Chinese women. It can also help to enhance the entertainment that you and your Chinese girlfriend can experience together. Using some fun games and high-speed tools, you can not only use the Chnlove to send EMF mails, but you can use it for a large variety of other purposes as well.

Here are a few ideas for helping you maximize your Internet connection so that you can truly connect with your loved Chinese girl.

1. Photos
Of course, the most obvious way to use the Internet when you are involved in a relationship is to send photos back and forth to one another. Photos not only help to connect the two of you, but they also help to break the ice. If you're capable of using photo editing software, then dress your loved one's photos up with fun colors or images. The change will make the two of you laugh and shows a bit of affection.

2. Games
There are a plethora of fun games available on the Internet. These games can often be played by two or more people, making them the ideal way to challenge each other to think differently and capitalize off of the online forum. you can find fun Internet games either on game specialty Web sites or through instant messaging services!

3. Video
With a small investment into a Web cam, you can observed your loved Chinese girlfriend via video camera. You can talk as if you are talking face to face either by connecting via the phone or attaching a microphone to your computer. Remember to look at the camera while you are speaking. While it is somewhat awkward to stare directly at a camera while talking, you will find that it will appear as if you are looking directly at your loved one.

4. Movies
There are many Web sites that offer movies and music that you can stream into your system. If the two of you watch the move simultaneously, you will find that it is almost the same experience as going out to a movie together…almost. You can chat via phone or Internet telephone about what is going on in the movie and even recommend certain movies to one another.

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Chinese Culture & Tradition: Mid-Autumn Festival is Coming Soon

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Mid-Autumn Festival, the second biggest traditional festivals in China ( the first one is Chun Jie - Spring festival), will be coming on 12th Sept., 2011. This is a date that parallels the autumnal equinox of the Chinese solar calendar, when the moon is supposedly at its fullest and roundest. For thousands of years, the Chinese people have related the vicissitudes of life to changes of the moon as it waxes and wanes - joy and sorrow, parting and reunion. Because the full moon is round and symbolizes reunion, the Mid-Autumn Festival is also known as the festival of reunion.

All family members try to get together on this special day. At the night, the family will enjoy the beauty of the full silver moon, eat moon cakes, drink wine together to celebrate their happy life. Those who can not return home watch the bright moonlight and feel deep longing for their loved ones. So for lovers who have to be apart at the moment, the moonlight of Mid-Autumn's Day brings particular warmth to their hearts. When sharing the beautiful moonlight in this peaceful evening and sending out your best wishes over the distance, two hearts are beating closer towards each other...

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Mid-Autumn Festival – Another Bitter-Sweet Love Story in China

Like a fair amount of Chinese holidays, the Mid-Autumn Festival is also a posthumous celebration of bitter-sweet romance. There’s a lot of beautiful legends about the moon in China, but the most popular one tells an archer named Hou Yi who, in typical awesome-hero fashion, had a beautiful Chinese wife named Chang’e.

A long, long time ago, a terrible drought plagued the earth. Ten suns burned fiercely in the sky like smoldering volcanoes. The trees and grass were scorched. The land was cracked and parched, and rivers ran dry. Many people died of hunger and thirst. The King of Heaven sent Hou Yi down to the earth to help. When Hou Yi arrived, he took out his red bow and white arrows and shot down nine suns one after another. The weather immediately turned cooler. Heavy rains filled the rivers with fresh water and the grass and trees turned green. Life had been restored and humanity was saved.

Dating traditional Chinese women in this Mid-Autumn Festival

One day, a charming young Chinese woman, Chang'e makes her way home from a stream, holding a bamboo contaiver, A young man comes forward, asking for a drink. When she sees the red bow and white arrows hanging from his belt, Chang'e tealizes that he is their savior, Hou Yi. Inviting him to drink, Chang'e plucks a beautiful flower and gives it to him as a token of respect. Hou Yi, in turn, selects a beautiful silver fox fur as his gift for her. This meeting kindles the spark of their love. And soon after that, they get married.

A mortal's life is limited, of course. So in order to enjoy his happy life with Chang'e forever, Hou Yi decides to look for an elixir of life. He goes to the Kunlun Mountains where the Western Queen Mother lives. Out of respect for the good deeds the has done, the Western Queen Mother rewards Hou Yi with elixir, a fine powder made from kerndls of fruit which grows on the tree of eternity. At the same time, she tells him: If you and your wife share the elixir, you will both enjoy eternal life. But if only one of you takes it,that one will ascend to Heaven and become immortal. Hou Yi returns home and tells his Chinese wife all that has happened and they decide to drink the elixir together on the 15th day of the eighth lunar month when the moon is full and bright.

A wicked and merciless man named Feng Meng secretly hears about their plan. He wishes Hou Yi an early death so that he can drink the elixir himeslf and become immortal. His opportunity finally arrives. One day, when the full moon is rising, Hou Yi is on his way home from hunting. Feng Meng kills him. The murderer then runs to Hou Yi's home and forces Chang'e to give him the elixir. Without hesitating, Chang'e picks up the elixir and drinks it all.

Overcome with grief, Chang'e rushes to her dead husband's sied, weeping bitterly. Soon the elixir begins to have its effect and Chang'e feels herself being lifted towards Heaven.

Chang'e decides to live on the moon because it is nearest to the earth. There she lives a simple and contented life. Even though she is in Heaven, her heart remains in the world of mortals. Never does she forget the deep love she has for Hou Yi and the love she feels for the people who have shared their sadness and happiness.

Another legend explained the role of the Old Man on the Moon, the Divine Match-maker. The Chinese believed that marriages were made in Heaven but prepared on the moon. The Old Man on the Moon tied the feet of young men and women with red cords for marriage. Thus a maiden made offerings and prayed to him during the Mid-Autumn Festival, hoping that some day she would ride in the red bridal sedan chair.