Chnlove Asia Dating Tips: Dont's Play with a Chinese Woman's Heart

Chinese Lady in Traditional Costume

I have always dreamed of marrying a beautiful Chinese lady. Three years ago, I joined the Chnlove Asia dating site, and have corresponded with quite a few ladies since then. Here are a few thoughts I would like to share with guys who intend to find a Chinese wife. Hopefully, these will give you a better idea of what Chinese women are like, and how to make your relationship work.

Chnlove Asia Dating Tips: Chinese Women A to Z

There is a general perception among Western men about Chinese women being loyal and family-oriented. Of course, there are tons of Chinese girls that are as much players as the guys and break hearts without a second thought. However, at least in my experience, most Chinese girls are very affectionate and are eager, sometimes too eager, to give their love to any man that is sweet and kind to them, especially when they are young.Chinese girls are extremely affectionate and usually very loyal, because their man is providing them with stability and security. In return she gives her affection, her body, and her fidelity. Generally speaking, once a Chinese girl commits to her partner she does so for life; it will take a great apocalyptic wrong by her partner to dissuade her from that commitment.They are incredibly loyal, especially if that loyalty is reciprocated.

On the other hand, Chinese women are generally traditional and conservative. Although open ladies do tend to make good wives for Western men, if the lady is too open about her sexuality then she could be a liability. Compared to their Western counterparts, Chinese women are often seen as conservative and traditional in their love life and marriage. For the majority of Chinese girls, there is no such thing as a casual relationship. A Chinese girl usually interprets any intimate behavior, such as gifts, romantic messages, sex, etc., as indications of long-term relationship potential. For these reasons, you should display traditional gentleman behavior when you are bringing her out on your first date. This will send the right signals to her, showing her that you are someone who respects her as a female.

Don't Play with Her Heart

Women do tend to like bad men, but don’t be too bad when you’re dating Chinese ladies! Remember that Chinese ladies tend to like alpha men who can take responsibility and show them respect. Everyone has fanciful illusions of fairy tale love stories, but of course reality is a harsh teacher. A man can throw out words and money and attention willy-nilly but a girl's affection is her precious possession, and when it is tossed aside after being used up, it can be devastating. Chinese girls are very naive about love and romance, in spite of it being largely absent from Chinese culture. Yet a heart is a heart, and love is an incredible treasure, and when it is placed in the hands of someone who recognizes just how special it is, that heart will sing.

Chnlove Club Dating Tips: Is She For Real?

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Chnlove Club is one of the largest dating sites for Western men seeking marriage with Chinese women. If you are reading this article, it probably means you and I share the same interest in Chinese women. Personally, I admire the loyal and submissive nature of Chinese ladies, and have been a member of Chnlove Club for a few years now.

Are the ladies in Chnlove Club players?

The simple answer to this question is: use your common sense! I have read tons of articles on all kinds of online dating forums. What have I found out? Many of these articles are true...for the person that wrote them! You can read what other people have to say, but when it comes to love, it is your heart that has the final say. Undoubtedly, there are some players out there, but based on my own experience, most of the ladies in Chnlove Cub are exactly what they claim to be, loyal and loving. I'm not trying to make these women seem better than they are. I think each man needs to judge for himself about the woman he's writing to. For me, the woman I'm writing to is not an image queen, not a woman of the street, just a woman that wants to be loved and love in return. When you get right down to the nitty-gritty, isn't that what we're looking for?

Why are these gorgeous Chinese women interested in a guy like me?

Like most men who use online dating service, I have my doubts from time to time. I am just an ordinary guy, not particularly good-looking or rich, and definitely not young. Why would all these beautiful ladies want to marry a guy like me? Then it hit me that many of these Chinese women have been tossed aside because their mate has joined forces with a woman much younger. I have read that most women in their 30's and older, with a child, are generally considered as undesirable for Chinese men. From information I've read, most of these women work long and hard to get their child through school. Most of them know that their chances of finding a Chinese husband are slim to non existent. So just try to understand what most Chinese women seeking Western husbands may have gone through. Life may not be easy for them. You, a good man, employed, money in savings and a home. In their shoes would you marry a man that had that? So my advice is just follow your heart. If you feel she's worth it, take a chance. Your heart and mind can't be totally wrong, can they?

Personal Review on Chnlove.com

Chnlove.com is the dating website that brought me and my beautiful Chinese wife together. I think I owe something back to Chnlove for helping me find my true love. So here I would like to share my own experience and hope it will help more people find the same happiness that I have found.

My Story on Chnlove.com

When I came on to Chnlove.com by chance, I was surprised to find a truckload of seemingly great women. Of course like everyone else here, I thought to myself: this is too good to be true. I mean, these ladies are so honest and up front about everything, not to mention good looking. So, after getting a bunch of admirer letters, I decided to write back to a couple of them just to see what would happen. Anyway, some ladies fell by the wayside because either I wasn't feeling it or just did not think they were serious about it. Then I found the lady of my dreams. After exchanging a few EMF mails, my lady and I fell head over heals in love with one another. Six months later, I went to China to meet her and soon after that, we got married!

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What are Chinese Women Really Like?

Based on my own experience, most of the ladies on Chnlove.com are exactly what they claim to be. Honest, sincere and very smart. They just want to love and be loved in return. In general, Chinese women are loyal and trust worthy. They make great wives and loyal friends. From what I've heard and seen, if a Chinese woman loves you, they generally stick by you. Once a Chinese girl commits to her partner, she does so for life. Many of the Chinese women may not be as forthright about telling you "I love you" openly, but you will know it by the little things they do FOR you. My girl washed my clothes, by hand, in the sink every night without me saying anything to her. If they truly love you, they will treat you like a king. All they want is for you to love, respect and protect them.

Thank You, Chnlove.com

I think Chnlove does a good job and most of the agencies do a good job. Most people don't realize that without the agencies and the EMF service, most of these relationships would fail before they even got started. That is why I am so thankful for Chnlove. My wife and I would have never met if it wasn't for Chnlove.

ChnLove - One of the Leading Chinese Matchmaking Sites

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ChnLove (China Love), member site of Qpid Network, is one of the leading international Chinese dating, or matchmaking sites in the world, with the aim of finding our clients Chinese girls for serious long-term relationships! Established in 2000, and with thousands of success stories of men having sought their Chinese lifemates, it can be said that ChnLove's team is fairly experienced in the mail order bride industry, providing clients with exactly what they want - the ease of finding a beautiful Chinese girlfriend, or even wife, and communicating without any language or cultural barriers, even if they don't speak Chinese, or if the ladies don't speak English!

Why choose ChnLove as your matchmaker?
Because we are different to other dates sites, in a good way. Unlike most dating sites, ChnLove's ladies do not register directly on the site as male members do, but we cooperate with matchmaking agencies throughout China, via which our lady members register to have their profiles posted on our dating site, which significantly reduces the risk of scams. Furthermore, we strive to ensure that all lady profiles posted on our site are 100% genuine by verifying the identity of each and every lady, and that all ladies aim to seek long-term relationships, often leading to marriage. So, you need not worry. Just sit back and enjoy your Chinese love journey!

What services does ChnLove offer?
Firstly, membership on ChnLove is FREE! We don't do those monthly packages, which other dating sites do, that provide you with unlimited usage of communication tools. This enforces the fact that our Chinese dating site is for serious men seeking serious Chinese girls for serious long-term relationships.

After signing up, your can browse lady profiles, send Cupid Notes to Chinese girls who catch your eye and receive Admirer Mails from Chinese girls who are interested in you, all for FREE! ChnLove's paid correspondence services include the EMF Express Mail Forwarding Service, Live Chat and Love Call, of which the matchmaking agencies are the communication bridge between the correspondence of you and your gorgeous Chinese woman, providing professional translation services when required. This makes communication with your female lifemate a piece of cake!

ChnLove also provides a gifts & flowers delivery service, visa & travel services, best all-inclusive marriage solutions and professional customer services to give you assistance on the littlest queries you may have. However, our FAQ section gives answers to most questions our male members may have.

Professional relationship advice just when you need it
ChnLove is not merely a platform enabling you to find your dream Chinese girl or bride but also a source for relationship consultancy. Chat with our excellent customer service crew, or visit our Tips & Advice section! There are tons of dating advice to assist you all the way at every step of your love journey, from before meeting your Chinese girlfriend, to getting together and meeting in the flesh, to how to maintain a healthy relationship with your Chinese woman!

Chinese language - Tips on Learning to Speak Chinese

More and more gentlemen on Chnlove are interested in learning Chinese. Maybe, they want to give better and deep impression to their Chinese girl by speaking their language. It's wonderful! Here we will give you some fundamental tips you should know when starting to learn the Chinese language. Some people said Chinese is one of the hardest languages to master but this article will help you get started on your journey to learning Chinese.

Learning Chinese, like pleasing your Chinese girlfriend, is going to take some time and effort. Chinese gets a "bad rap" as being one of the most difficult languages to learn. However, there are also reasons why learning Chinese may actually be EASIER than learning a language such as English, Spanish or French. Whenyou've decided to learn Chinese for dating Chinese girl, here are some things you expect:

1. No Verb Conjugations - That's right! The Chinese language does not require verb conjugations. For example, the Chinese word in pinyin for "to be" is "shi", pronounced "shir". To say "I am" is "Wo shi" (pronounced "Wor shir"). To say "He is" would be "Ta shi" (pronounced "Tah shir"). Notice the verb "to be" or "shi" has not changed form whatsoever. This is how all verbs in Chinese are and this makes learning new verbs much easier, because you don't need to concern yourself with multiple variations of each verb.

2. No Verb Tenses - Verbs in Chinese do not change form based on the tense you are using. Contrast this with English where we would say "I go" versus "I went". In English, Spanish, French and most languages, the actual verb form changes, sometimes very drastically, based on when the action took place. In Chinese, this is not the case. To say "I go" would be "Wo qu" (pronounced "Wor choo"). To say "I went" would be "Wo qu le" (pronounced "Wor choo le"). Notice the "le" at the end of the sentence, which indicates that the action is in the past. However, the verb itself "qu" has not changed. Regardless of whether you are doing an action now, in the past or in the future, Chinese does not require you to modify the verb form.

3. No Gender Nouns - Gender nouns are a common component in some languages such as Spanish and French. There are no gender nouns in Chinese.

4. Chinese Grammar is Relatively Simple - A sentence in English such as, "I want to go to the beach" in Chinese would be translated as "I want go beach". There are rarely any "extra" words used such as "to", "the", etc. Many beginners learning Chinese take a while to get used to speaking so straightforward and without these words so common in other languages.

Then, you must be asking yourself... So if that's all true, then why do people say it's so hard to learn Chinese!?! Learning Chinese does have its challenges. These challenges include:

1. Characters Instead of an Alphabet - The Chinese language is composed of over 30,000 characters, although only a few thousand are really necessary to learn for daily conversation. While Chinese has something called "radicals" which do make up characters, there is no alphabet in the standard sense of the word. This can make learning Chinese more difficult because you won't be able to use reading as a way to learn to speak. For example, if you know English and have a basic concept of how Spanish is pronounced, you could pick up any book and begin to read it. You may not know what the meaning is, but at least you can read and pronounce what is on paper. Chinese however is not like this. If you haven't specifically memorized the character you are reading, you don't know it and cannot say it. Therefore, it is impossible for a beginner to pick up a piece of paper and read the Chinese characters on it. This is why many people learn to speak Chinese quite well, yet can't read and write Chinese characters.

2. Tones - Chinese is a tonal language, meaning that the pronunciation of the word affects its meaning. This can be tricky to those who have not grown up with a tonal language as their mother tounge. There are examples such as "ma" which can mean "mother", "horse", "port" and a few other things just by changing the tone. While tones are important and certainly a challenge, don't let this be an excuse not to learn Chinese. The more familiar you become with the language the more straightforward speaking with the proper tones will become. Now that you have a primer on the Chinese language if you didn't already, don't wait to begin or continue your Chinese language study!

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Dating Chinese Girls Do's and Don'ts

Dating Chinese Girls Do's and Don'ts

This article was provided by one of Chnlove Male member. He wants to share his points of view on dating Chinese girls. Do you agree with him?

Due to cultural differences, dating a Chinese girl can be a battle at the best of times. Haveing dated a fair few Chinese girls I am so often asked what a guy should and shouldn't do on a date with a Chinese girl. So, I decided to write this short article on the do's and don'ts on a date with a Chinese female.

Do:
1. Be polite and gentlemanly on the first few dates until she reveals her true character to you. Some Chinese women really have a desire for the difference a westerner provides in a relationship; so, if you are simply like Chinese guys she has dated before it will bore her.

2. Compliment her on her clothing or hairstyle. Many Chinese women have simply made the effort with their appearance for you, even if it's unclear that it is a possibly romantic date they are going on, they will still care about their appearance in front of you. You commenting on her appearance says you notice things that other men possibly don't. This puts you in a strong position.

3. Be prepared to take the lead in the conversation unless she shows you she wishes otherwise. Many Chinese females are quite reserved on the first date and even quite a few subsequent ones. They rarely open up quickly unless they are a certain type of Chinese female.

Don't:
1. Be over-confident; most Chinese people consider modesty to be a virtue in a male. I hear complaints from Chinese women all the time about dates they've been on where the guy couldn't stop singing his own praises. Confidence may equal irritation and attraction in a western female, but this doesn't translate in a Chinese girl very often.

2. Expect to get anywhere fast. In truth if a Chinese girl had wished 'something' to happen she would have invited herself around to your house instead of going out with you. The fact that she is going out on a date with you shows she wants to see you jump through a few hoops first. This can take some time dependent on the girl in question.

3. Make the assumption she will contact you to arrange the next date. That's your job!

This list is by far incomplete, there are just so many points and nuances, situational and otherwise, that it's just not possible to list all of them in an article of this length. An understanding of cultural background and the Chinese female psychology is also vital to ensure success!

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Enhance Your Online Dating Experience with Chinese Women

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The Internet not only provides a powerful communication medium when you are involved in an online dating relationship with Chinese women. It can also help to enhance the entertainment that you and your Chinese girlfriend can experience together. Using some fun games and high-speed tools, you can not only use the Chnlove to send EMF mails, but you can use it for a large variety of other purposes as well.

Here are a few ideas for helping you maximize your Internet connection so that you can truly connect with your loved Chinese girl.

1. Photos
Of course, the most obvious way to use the Internet when you are involved in a relationship is to send photos back and forth to one another. Photos not only help to connect the two of you, but they also help to break the ice. If you're capable of using photo editing software, then dress your loved one's photos up with fun colors or images. The change will make the two of you laugh and shows a bit of affection.

2. Games
There are a plethora of fun games available on the Internet. These games can often be played by two or more people, making them the ideal way to challenge each other to think differently and capitalize off of the online forum. you can find fun Internet games either on game specialty Web sites or through instant messaging services!

3. Video
With a small investment into a Web cam, you can observed your loved Chinese girlfriend via video camera. You can talk as if you are talking face to face either by connecting via the phone or attaching a microphone to your computer. Remember to look at the camera while you are speaking. While it is somewhat awkward to stare directly at a camera while talking, you will find that it will appear as if you are looking directly at your loved one.

4. Movies
There are many Web sites that offer movies and music that you can stream into your system. If the two of you watch the move simultaneously, you will find that it is almost the same experience as going out to a movie together…almost. You can chat via phone or Internet telephone about what is going on in the movie and even recommend certain movies to one another.

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Chnlove Tips: Choosing an Online Dating Picture

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Think about your online dating searching process - don't you always check the personal ads with photos first? A dating research has demonstrated that by simply posting a picture, it automatically increases the number of responses - even if you are not overly attractive.
A photo attached to the online dating profile can personalize your ad and reduce others' uncertainty, especially when you choose Chnlove as your dating channel, your ultimate goal must be actually meeting your Chinese girl in person, in this case, choosing a dating picture becomes more essential.

Picture Taking Tips
The key in accurately displaying your best appearance online is taking the best photograph possible. Ideally, start with a new or recent photo. If you are relatively new to photography, here are some basic photography tips:

• Lighting is critical for a good photo. Unless you have access to a professional studio, take your picture outside on a bright day, preferably in the early morning or late afternoon to avoid shadows.

• Focus on the face and shoulders.

• Stand back and zoom on the face. This ensures the picture is clear and sharp.

• Stand up straight. This will make you look thinner and more confident. Just don't be too rigid!

• Take an assortment of pictures with different face angles - facing front, side, profile, head up, down, etc.

• Preview your background. What are you standing in front of? How will it look in the backdrop, and will it create the correct contrast for your face?

• Make sure you are smiling and feel relaxed and happy. This will help you to look more natural in your picture. Try a fun activity before taking your picture; that carefree glow will shine through the lens.

Choosing a Dating Picture
Then, when you have selected a handful of your best pictures, how do you go about actually choosing a online dating picture? While analyzing your assortment, keep the following tips in mind:

• Be honest. Choose a recent photo and never use a fake picture. It is certainly okay to touch up a pimple or two but don't change hair color or stretch your picture so you appear thinner. They are going to see the real you eventually anyway!

• Don't post a picture of someone else, even if you are upfront about it, like a picture of your child. Potential daters simply want to see you.

• Avoid pictures with other people in them, even if you crop their faces out. There still might be a stray arm or hand that will look odd to the viewer.

• For your main profile picture, don't add any props, like a car or pet. If you add other pictures to your ad, that would be the time to add these types of things but only if they are truly significant to you.

• Limit the number of profile pictures to no more than three. Any more and you look a little too full of yourself.

Just as you might brush your hair, floss your teeth and check the mirror one last time before an evening on the town - your online photo is a representation of you. Make sure it is the best ever with above dating tips.

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Chnlove Tips: Importance of Good Online Dating Profile
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Traditional Chinese Festival - Double Seventh Day is Approaching Quickly!

Double Seventh Day

The Qixi Festival, literally "Double Seventh Day", also known as the Magpie Festival, falls on the seventh day of the seventh lunar month of the Chinese calendar, thus its name. It is sometimes called the Chinese Valentine's Day since the late 1990s. Young girls traditionally demonstrate their domestic arts, especially melon carving, on this day and make wishes for a good husband.


This year, the festival falls on August 6. In the late summer, the stars Altair and Vega are high in the night sky, and the Chinese tell the following love story:

A young cowherd, Niulang, came across a beautiful girl, Zhinü (literally "the weaver girl"), the seventh daughter of the Goddess, who had just escaped from boring heaven to look for fun. The naughty princess soon fell in love with Niulang, and they married without the knowledge of the Goddess. They lived happily and had two children. However, the Goddess of Heaven found out that Zhinü, a fairy girl, had married a mere mortal. The Goddess was furious and ordered Zhinü to return to heaven. On Earth, Niulang was very upset that his wife had disappeared. Suddenly, his ox told him that if he killed it and put on its hide, he would be able to go up to Heaven to find his wife. So he killed the ox and carried his two beloved children off to Heaven to find Zhinü. The Goddess found out and was very angry. Taking out her hairpin, she scratched a wide river in the sky to separate the two lovers forever, thus forming the Milky Way between Altair and Vega.

Once a year all the magpies in the world would take pity on them and fly up to heaven to form a bridge, "the bridge of magpies", over the star Deneb in the Cygnus constellation so that the lovers can be together for a single night, on the seventh night of the seventh moon.

Does Niulang and Zhinü’s situation resemble that of you and your Chinese lady? They are separated by distance and so are you. Think again, you have something they did not have. Cherish what you have with your other half. Don’t take life for granted. Although there is physically a long distance between you and your lady, you can overcome this distance by bringing yourself closer to her – call her, chat to her, write to her, gifts for her– use our online communication tools!

Chinese women's Opinions on International Marriages

As international marriages became more and more popular in China , one of famous Chinese newspapers - Nanfang Daily teamed up with sina.com.cn put together an online poll asking for Chinese women's input and views on international marriages. There are a total of 3,464 people participated in this survey, you may know more about Chinese women from the results below:

1. For many Chinese, matrimony between two middle-aged people can only be born out of practical needs and has little to do with romance and love. Do you think that this is also the prevalent opinion of Westerners and international marriages?
A. Marriage is often about love for westerners, more so than it is in China    (52.20% / 1,811)
B. Undecided    (19.7% / 681)
C. Infidelity in marriage is more prevalent in the west, so the quality of marriage is even lower than it is in China    (16.6% / 574)
D. Marriage in the west is about the same practicalities as it is in China    (11.5% / 398)

2. What do you think is the central factor in the international marriage of the couple cited here?
A. The riches and fame of a foreign man    (44.1% / 1528)
B. A woman obviously seeking a better future    (23.6% / 817)
C. Love    (21.6% / 747)
D. Intercultural appreciation    (7.7% / 267)
E. Other    (3.0% / 105)

3. If you're to compare the international union cited above with typical marriages between people from a single country, which of the two has the better odds at success in your opinion?
A. Can't say for certain    (51.2% / 1,773)
B. National marriages have better odds    (24.5% / 848)
C. International marriages have better odds    (24.3% / 843)
4. If you had the opportunity, would you consider international marriage?
A. I'd be willing    (67.5% / 2,338)
B. No, I'd rather not    (18.3% / 634)
C. Undecided    (14.2% / 492)

5. Ideally, where would you want your foreign significant other to be from?
A. North America    (29.8% / 1,036)
B. Western Europe    (28.7% / 993)
C. Northern Europe    (13.8% / 478)
D. Oceania (Australia, New Zealand)    (9.9% / 344)
E. Other    (6.7% / 231)
F. Southeastern Asia    (6.1% / 210)
G. Japan    (5.0% / 172)

6. If you were to consider international marriage, which would be the other major factor in play aside from love?
A. The overall social and cultural tolerance for individualism    (42.9% / 1,490)
B. The lure of the exotic    (22.9% / 792)
C. Better things and bigger possessions    (20.8% / 720)
D. Bigger and better career developments    (9.8% / 338)
E. Other    (3.6% / 124)

7. If you were to consider international marriage, what would be your biggest concern?
A. The obvious cultural and social differences between us    (51.4% / 1,783)
B. 2Whether or not I could adjust to the foreign culture    (17.8% / 616)
C. My language and work skills    (15.1% / 523)
D. Leaving behind my parents    (12.7% / 439)
E. Other    (3.0% / 103)

8. Would you be willing to immigrate to an impoverished country in Africa for the love of your life?
A. No    (78.2% / 2,708)
B. Yes    (21.8% / 756)

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Our New Sister Site - CharmingDate has been launched!

CharmingDate.com, our new Russian and Eastern European Dating Site, has has been officially launched! This site will allow global members to be matched with compatible singles from Russia, Ukraine and other Eastern European countries, with whom they are likely to enjoy a long-term relationship. We are sure that people of all ages can find a great date, friendship, romance, love, a committed relationship or even marriage here.
At CharmingDate.com, we give singles the opportunity to create a spark through various services: Live Chat, Mail Correspondence, Gifts and Flowers, Travel Solutions, etc. We also understand how different dating Russian girls can be. So we provide powerful search and communication tools to recognize your needs to make new acquaintances and pursue strong, lasting relationships in a safe environment.

If you are already a member of Chnlove.com, you can even enjoy the additional benefit. Our system has automatically created a similar account for you on CharmingDate.com. So, there's no need to re-register. You just need to note the following points:

1. You can use your original Chnlove.com login email and password to sign in, but your member ID will be CDxxxx instead of CMxxxx. The Login URL is: http://www.charmingdate.com/my/p_login.php

2. Apart from the fact that your login details are the same, CharmingDate.com itself is relatively independent. After signing in, you can independently change your password and profile information, and update your photos so more Russian girls can meet your requirements!

Interested in these Russian girls? Hurry up and act now! Click here to register/login within a few minutes and and start searching for your love in Europe!

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Step by Step to Dating Chinese Girls Online

There are lots of attractions in China, and Chinese girls are the most alluring of them all. Their feminine charms and their gentle, tender loving sets them apart from girls from the rest of world. But the problem, lies in the huge distances between Asia and the West. Thousands and thousands of miles definitely makes it difficult to set up a relationship, much less maintain it over a period of time. Now, Chinese dating site - Chnlove helps solve that problem.

Meeting up
Most of Chinese dating site are designed specifically to allow Chinese to meet up with each other, but Chnlove serves to bridge the gap between the western man and Chinese women. A Western man signing up for Chnlove will put him at a great advantage over similar dating services, as the general populace of Chnlove is composed of Chinese women, and these women are carefully selected and verified by their local dating agencies. They are true and sincere. So Chnlove is definitely worth considering if you want to meet up with an Chinese girl.

Developing the relationship
Once you have made contact with a promising Chinese girl, the next step would be develop a relationship with successive mails. Take the initiative to express interest in her, but avoid sexual and explicit undertones with your language. Chinese girls tend to prefer gentlemen who are a bit spicy in their own unique ways.

Maintaining the Relationship
All women, especially Chinese girls, desire love that is tender and intimate. This is where your communication skills will also help you live up to the challenge, especially since you cannot meet her face-to-face on a regular basis. You need to be able to express your love and intimacy with her without being physically there, and that can prove to be a challenge when you want to maintain the relationship you have already established. Find common venues to spend time together, whether they are simple live Chat or Love Calls. Remember, what you cannot make up for in physical contact, you have to make up for with time and attention.

Arranging a meeting
Chinese women are human too, and they crave to be hugged and shown some degree of physical attention. This is why you cannot truly say you are a couple until you have met each other and spent some time together. On Chnlove site, the online environment can only get you so far, and you had better be prepared to make a few airplane trips if you really want to keep the relationship going.

Making it official
This is the ultimate goal of forming an online relationship with Chinese girls, and will prove to be a more permanent decision for the both of you. If you want to make the relationship official, then one of you has to go live with the other. This means either you will go to her country, or she will go to your country. It sounds simple enough, but you have to remember to arrange all the legal documents and financial obligations considering you are the man in this relationship. For more info, please read our older post: Chnlove Info: The Certificates Needed for Getting Married in China

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Chinese Culture and Tradition: Courting a Chinese Girl

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Many gentlemen on Chnlove may want to know what Chinese people do when courting, especially when they are taken up with a Chinese girl, they even hope to treat her in a Chinese way. So today, we'd like to share transitional Chinese courting culture - though some have changed in modern society, we believe, some are still deeply affecting Chinese girls. Culture always goes to the bone!

Courting is far more indirect in Chinese culture than in most Western societies. Transitionally, Chinese relationships pass in several stages, usually lasting for a long period of time. An engagement, even lasts for several years and as far as marriage is concerned, it is viewed as a lifetime commitment.

The Friendly Beginning - Often the starting point of a Chinese relationship is a friendly date. The couple will go out together in public places as friends only and will be accompanied by other friends. During this stage of courting there will be no public displays of affection, the man has to be discreet and friendly or he will be accused of being too arrogant. It is too early for kissing or holding hands at this point.

Discreet Chinese Dating - That is the second stage of Chinese courtship and now couples may go out together without the company of their friends, but again, the keyword here is "discreetly". Chinese women cannot afford to be fast, they are expected to be hard to get because it is seen as an appropriate behavior when they are courted. A Chinese girl never shows her admirer that she is also in love with him immediately.

Playing hard to get is one way by which the Chinese can measure the sincerity of the man interested in her. It also lets her show the man that he has to work hard to win her love. Some courtships may last for years before the woman accepts her admirer's love and they become a term for boyfriend-girlfriend.

Taking the Relationship Public - After some time the couple may decide to come out in the open about their romance. At this time they will inform their family and friends about their relationship. Every man who wants to be taken seriously by a Chinese is obliged to visit her family and introduce himself formally to her parents. It is rather inappropriate to court a Chinese girl and formalize the relationship without informing the girl's parents.

There is a tacit rule here that says: "When courting the Asian you are not courting just her, you are courting the entire family". Following this rule will help you earn her respect by entrusting her family with high regard.

There are certain traditions that have to be observed when visiting the Chinese's family. For example, if the man wants to be acceptable to the girl's family, he has to give small gifts every time he drops by her family's house. Then after being a couple with your Chinese girl for quite a time and decide to get married, you should do is ask the girl's parents for her hand.

When courting a Chinese woman you will find that she is shy and reserved even when holding great feelings for you. This is a part of her culture and even for a Western man there is no way around that. You should treat your Chinese girl with respect, lead the courtship with your heart and you may find a lifetime partner that will enrich your life as you have never imagined.

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Live Chat Tips: Those Great Dating Conversation Starters

After Chnlove unveiled the Live Chat service, we often received inquiries from gentleman members on Live Chat conversation starters. They want to know online Chinese girls better but don’t know how to break the ice. Yes, first dates can always be troublesome because both the man and woman get nervous with each other. Even though you two might be perfect for each other, too much nonsense might get in the way and then make things seem bad. So here we will give 56 great open-ended questions that will help you start a good conversation and know Chinese girls more:

1. What was your best job?

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2. What were your worst jobs?

3. Tell me all the places you worked.

4. Tell me about your best friend.

5. Tell me about your family.

6. Tell me about your relatives.

7. Who are your favorite music artists?

8. Who are your favorite movie stars?

9. Favorite song?

10. What were your life changing moments?

11. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done?

12. Do you like to shop?

13. Best way to relax?

14. Favorite thing to do alone?

15. Do you save money?

16. What hobbies to you spend money on?

17. If you found a $100 what would you do?

18. Do you want children/more children?

19. Are you a good parent?

20. What makes a good parent?

21. Are you romantic?

22. Do you have any pets?

23. Dog or cat?

24. Sleep in the nude?

25. Favorite midnight snack?

26. Have you ever gone skydiving (choose any sport or activity)?

27. What sports do you like watching?

28. What is your favorite type of food?

29. What is a food you can live without?

30. Favorite drink?

31. What date was your perfect day?

32. How many cds/dvds do you own?

33. What is the weirdest thing about you?

34. What is on your bedside table?

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35. Are you cheap or thrifty?

36. Grades in high school?

37. Favorite teacher?

38. What are the most recent movies you've seen?

39. Worse movies you have ever seen?

40. Best concert you have been to?

41. Like beer, wine or coffee?

42. Best vacation?

43. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do?

44. Worse vacation?

45. Three places you would love to visit?

46. If you could do anything what would it be?

47. Super powers you wish you had?

48. Ideal romantic dinner?

49. Dumbest purchase you ever made?

50. What sporting event/concert/entertainment would you buy tickets to regardless of price?

51. Are you a neat freak?

52. Can’t stand being around people who_____?

53. How old do you want to live to?

54. Ever had a crush on a member of the same sex?

55. Most annoying habit?

56. Most embarrassing moment?

At last, remember the most important thing for Live Chat is to have fun! You might be surprised by what you learn about the other person. Don’t force anyone to answer a question they don’t want to and don’t pry deeper if they are not willing to talk about a certain subject. For more tips about conversation topics, please read: How to Talk to Girls Online on Chnlove reviews site.

What Chinese Woman Want

Most gentlemen may want to know what exactly a Chinese woman want out of a man when joining Chnlove and begin their dating. It's really a hard question. Usually they think the answer is four things: Tall, dark, handsome and rich. But factually, this is usually not what they want in a man. Have you ever seen a beautiful Chinese woman on the street holding hands with an unattractive, short and trashy guy? Most women will not tell you exactly what they want.

If you were to ask any Chinese woman on the street they usually tell you these things:

".......I want someone to make me laugh and smile."

".....a confident and powerful man..."

"...I want a man to treat me like a princess."

In essence, Chinese women wants three main things out of man:

Confidence
Research reveals women look for, and place a high value on, men who are intelligent, ambitious, and who work hard for advancement and high goals. They want a confident man. Chinese women may want a man that knows what he wants in life. They don't want a man who is scared of taking risks and who is not comfortable in their own skin. She will think what will happen when they get married – will she feel comfortable living with a man that is scared of life and is confident enough to provide a good living to her and her children?

Security and stability
They want a man that they can be looked after no matter what. Being rich and powerful will give her more security and stability in her life compared to a poor person. These two important characteristics also imply that the man will share his resources and continue reliably protecting and caring for the family in all future unforeseen circumstances.

Challenge and Sense of Humor
They want a man to challenge her. Most Chinese woman may lead boring lives, they want a man to stimulate their minds and make them laugh. Having fun and making them laugh are good ways to really challenge them. A man's good sense of humor can develop camaraderie and enlivens the relationship better than any other single characteristic. Good humor also signals good intelligence.
Love and Commitment
These two words have different meanings in different cultures but they imply a man’s willingness to give his full attention and all his resources unselfishly to his mate and offspring. Also implied is the man’s promise of future fidelity and continued protection and shared resources. When a Chinese woman says that “love” is important, what she is implying is that she wants to insure that his support in the future will continue. A continuing on-going “love connection” is reassuring to the woman for future protection and survival.
If you give Chinese Woman all these four things, we will have no doubt you will able to hook up with any woman you desire.

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Mother's Day Promotion - She Deserves Your Celebration

(Chnlove Mother's Day Promotion: http://www.chnlove.com/activities/mothers_day.php)

"To my sweet Chinese girlfriend: You add a touch of radiance and softness to my ordinary life. Your child is so lucky to call you mom and I'm so lucky to call you my girl! "

Mother's Day (May 8, 2011) is quickly approaching - two weeks after Easter. During this warm holiday, do you not want to do something special for your Chinese girlfriend, who is also a wonderful mother? Join Chnlove Mother's Day Promotion-Program and enjoy all kinds of bonuses and discounts to show your appreciation.

Duration: May 1-15, 2011
Eligibility: Both you and your lady are members of Chnlove, and she is a single mother.
Discounts and Bonuses:

1. When ordering gifts or flowers for a single-mom lady, you can get 5% off on the order immediately. Shop for gifts now >

2. When making a Love Call with a single-mom lady, you can get free credits as a "Love Call Bonus". 1 FREE credit will be refunded for every 10 minutes your call lasts. The longer your Love Call is, the more free credits you get. Credits will be added to your account within 48 hours after you end the call. Make a call now >

Mother's Day is a day for every woman who has earned the distinct honor of motherhood. She deserves your celebration! Come to Chnlove and Act Now!

Chnlove Tips: Importance of Good Online Dating Profile

When reviewing profiles of Chnlove, we are regretted to find that some gentlemen have posted a empty profile or some profiles are too simple just stating they want to meet a Chinese woman. Do not they know that their profiles are the best advert? Here we'd like to share our opinion on the importance of good online dating profile.

If you're serious about finding a suitable Chinese woman online then please do not ignore importance of your online dating profile on Chnlove. Your dating profile is critical to making a good first impression, which is a first step to increase the number of letters from our Chinese lady member, and at the same time, your dating profile can improve communication quality with other singles because well created dating profile should tell other what kind of person you would like to meet.

If you want to increase the number of letters, you should use "eyes-catching" subject header for you dating profile. For example, it is recommended to start your profile description with love quote, greeting, joke or something from your heart. However, hundreds of letter does not mean quality. You can't date 100 Chinese women at once. Well-created dating profile will help you to get fewer responses but they will be more interesting for you.

Think, if you make your Chnlove online dating profile too simple just stating a bit about yourself and not specifying what kinds of Chinese women you want to meet in terms of age, distance, likes, dislikes, etc., then your inbox would probably flooded with messages from people you wouldn't even want to meet. This happens very often because when browsing empty profile with nice photo, then some Chinese women may think that they must try to contact you because everyone has a chance…

But if your Chnlove profile states requirements person should meet to become your date it will force to think about their chances. Sometimes small details could be decisive. In example you like pets, while other person have allergy, you like sitting at home while other member like pubs and night clubs, often such small details could stay invisible until first date or even first month of relationship… So by pointing out your preferences in your dating profile you can save plenty of time. Dating profile should tell as much as possible about your interests.

A good Chnlove online dating profile also needs to contain what actions would you want Chinese women to take; what exactly are those actions that are okay by you and even actions that are not. This will increase the number of letters receive from people of your same wavelength and people you are interested to meet.

In short, dating profile is best area, which you can edit to increase the number of quality contacts when you use dating service. So now, are you still like to post a incomplete and boring profile? Back to Chnlove to polish your profile as soon as possible!

To know more about how you can create a great dating profile, please read: Polish Your Profile

Chnlove Tips: 8 Steps to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

Being in a long distance relationship isn't easy because it requires a strong commitment. When your partner is miles away from you, it is very easy to let things go wrong and lead your long distance romance to an early death. However, for most of members on Chnlove and their Chinese girls, long distance relationship is quite common. So, what we should do to make such long distance relationship work and achieve a lasting love?

1) Establish an effective communication channel
The very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is to establish an effective communication channel. Here we would like to recommend Chnlove powerful EMF Mail Forwarding Service and LoveCall service. EMF Mail Forwarding Service is an integrated solution that combines mail correspondence, translation, dating guidance and alerting tools on a robust platform. You can break the immediate language barriers through this service; And if your Your Chinese girl want to hear your voice, you can give her a LoveCall. This service can let you manage all phone communications with your Chinese girl via translators on any of your existing phones.
2) Share Passions with your Chinese girl
The great thing about long-distance relationships is that you tend to get to know your girl much better than if you were physically together. As a result, you learn much more about her likes, dislikes, and passions. Find something your Chinese girl is passionate about that you can get involved with. For example, maybe your girl really loves tennis and you've never played tennis. Start taking tennis lessons and discuss it with her. Find passions that you both can share and it will invigorate your feelings and appreciation for the relationship.

3) Surprise your Chinese girl
Occasionally surprise you Chinese girl with cards, gifts and flower out of their expectation apart from your normal correspondence. Put your imagination to use and your girl will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending the unexpected gifts to your Chinese girl will always spice up your distance relationship regardless how far your partner may be.

4) Plan to meet each other
There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other again at an interval of time throughout the period of your long distance relationship. This will help both you and your Chinese girl to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart. The anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, hope and as well as eliminating the lonely feeling.

5) Spend time together while apart
Even though your Chine girl may live hours away, you can still experience "date nights" with her. For example, let's say you are both interested in seeing the latest blockbuster movie. Plan to go at the exact same time (coordinate your time zones) to see the movie then when it is over call each other to discuss it. It's fun knowing that your partner is doing the exact same thing as you at the exact same time. Even though you're apart, you're still sharing a moment "together".


6) Never make assumptions
Always be clear about your relationship with each other. Don't assume that your long-distance Chinese girl knows your feelings - share them. Good or bad, be clear about how you feel about the relationship. Assumptions kill many relationships, while clear communication helps relationships succeed. Let your girl clearly know your ambitions, fears, feelings, and desires. This will allow him/her to share something deeper with you as you both work together towards mastering your communication abilities.


7) Avoid jealousy and be trusting
There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. In order for you to survive your distance relationship, you must learn to trust your Chinese girl whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other and it is a beginning of the end if you start to suspect your girl at any point of your long distance relationship.

8) Establish the relationship rules and standards
Create your own set of relationship standards that both you and your Chinese girl have mutually agreed upon. That creates a common goal for you to work towards, developing a strong relationship whether you are together or apart. For example, agree to disagree, accept each other as you are, practice trust and honesty, strive towards compromise and self-sacrifice, seek spiritual unity, and maintain open communication.

Just as some people say, "If you're in love with somebody, you will swim the stream, you will climb the mountain, you will slay the dragon..." We believe, the long distance relationship between you and our Chinese girl member can work if you put the time and effort into making it work.

Never miss the chance of dating a real Chinese girl. Join Chnlove!

Why Chinese women may be Good for Western Men

If you're currently a member of Chnlove than you're probably there because you're tired of the the type of relationships between most of Western Men and Western Women. You don't like the women who grew up in the "ME" generation, always looking strictly for "What's in this relationship for me?" But when you meet a new Western Woman who you find attractive, before the conversation has even really begun, she's already drilling you about your occupation, your assets and your money,etc. You've heard that Chinese Women are different than that, so you're come to Chnlove to check it out.


In fact (Let's be honest about that). Chinese Women on Chnlove will also want to know that you have an income and that you are financially stable. Like women everywhere, she also wants a secure future. The difference is, most Chinese Women come from a world where a normal job is a great job, a simple home is a great home, and family is everything.

- Will there be food on the table: good enough.
- Will we have a home that I can clean and cook in and make comfortable for you: good enough.
- You're a truck driver (mechanic, teacher, male nurse, etc): that's fantastic. Just be reliable.

So, if you want a simple life where you do your job, which is the primary income earner, and she does her job, which is manage the home and family, then Chinese women make great life partners. That's not to say that she won't help you with business if that's what you want, but you'll be the boss. And it doesn't mean she's not prepared to have a job too. She will likely prove to be a very hard worker. It does mean that running the home is her job as well. You will have a say in all the important decisions, but when it comes to day to day operations sit back and let her take over, it's what she does best.

Generally, only a Chinese woman commits, she will invest every ounce of her being into your future, your home, your family and your life together. Chinese women like to spend as much time with you as possible. The more you can be together the happier they are. They're happy to go out with you and play, spend time at the movies, relax in a pub with your friends, walk on a beach, anything so long as she is with you. Equally a quiet night at home is perfect. To her, time with her husband is important. But that doesn't mean you have to be with her every moment, it just means that every moment of your time you do give he will be appreciated.

Unlike Western Women, a Chinese Woman will not sit around with her buddies secretly badmouthing you. To her, if you look bad she looks bad, and she would lose face. So long as you are covering the bare basics, she will outwardly praise you to the roof, because if her friends think you look good, then she gains face. And if she says you're not a good husband, then implicitly she is failing as a wife.

Chinese women like to please their men, and to receive acknowledgment that they have pleased him. Every Chinese woman loves it when her man gives her a little gift, because it means she has pleased him and he appreciates it.

None of this is to say that they never will be angry, never will express their concerns. And when a Chinese Woman reaches the boiling point, sit back and stay silent. Let her get it out, let her have her say, and acknowledge her righteousness, or watch out. Given proper respect, she will return it many times over. She will honor your love, your marriage and your family, always placing your needs and those of your children above her own.

If you want to date such a Chinese woman, then you're in the right place. Chnlove Online dating is absolutely a great way to find, meet and get to know Chinese women.

Chnlove: Love is in the air for Lantern Festival

Lantern festival (Yuanxiao in Chinese), this last day of the Chinese New Year Season is a day for lovers.

February is the month for love in 2011. In days gone by, Chnlove members celebrated Valentine's day by exchanging love cards, flowers and chocolates, and today, Chinese people are celebrating the traditional Lantern Festival. Lantern Festival falls on the 15th day of the 1st lunar month (usually in February in the Gregorian calendar, and that night is the first full moon of the year. Originally, Lantern festival is a day for family members to gather together because that is the last day of the Chinese spring festival Season, but in recent years it has taken on a similar significance to Valentine's Day in Europe, it is a day for lovers and couples.

Traditionally, the Lantern Festival once served as a day for matchmaking. It was one of the few nights in ancient times without a strict curfew. At that day, Chinese girls can come out - chaperoned, of course! - and be seen by eligible single men, then matchmakers acted busily in hopes of pairing couples. You know in ancient China when women's feet were bound, it was often the one time when she could appear in public with unbound feet. Of course, these restrictions no longer exist in modern society, but there is still a hint of romance in the air at the Lantern Festival celebrations. Parks always prepare lanterns and flowers, creating a very romantic atmosphere in a very Chinese way, and people also light lanterns in different colors and designs for others to admire, etc.

Other popular activities at this festival include eating tangyuan, a sweet glutinous rice dumpling served in a sweet or savory soup, and guessing lantern riddles, often messages of love.

Hopefully you can going to China and spend a traditional lantern festival with you favorite Chinese girl.