Step by Step to Dating Chinese Girls Online

There are lots of attractions in China, and Chinese girls are the most alluring of them all. Their feminine charms and their gentle, tender loving sets them apart from girls from the rest of world. But the problem, lies in the huge distances between Asia and the West. Thousands and thousands of miles definitely makes it difficult to set up a relationship, much less maintain it over a period of time. Now, Chinese dating site - Chnlove helps solve that problem.

Meeting up
Most of Chinese dating site are designed specifically to allow Chinese to meet up with each other, but Chnlove serves to bridge the gap between the western man and Chinese women. A Western man signing up for Chnlove will put him at a great advantage over similar dating services, as the general populace of Chnlove is composed of Chinese women, and these women are carefully selected and verified by their local dating agencies. They are true and sincere. So Chnlove is definitely worth considering if you want to meet up with an Chinese girl.

Developing the relationship
Once you have made contact with a promising Chinese girl, the next step would be develop a relationship with successive mails. Take the initiative to express interest in her, but avoid sexual and explicit undertones with your language. Chinese girls tend to prefer gentlemen who are a bit spicy in their own unique ways.

Maintaining the Relationship
All women, especially Chinese girls, desire love that is tender and intimate. This is where your communication skills will also help you live up to the challenge, especially since you cannot meet her face-to-face on a regular basis. You need to be able to express your love and intimacy with her without being physically there, and that can prove to be a challenge when you want to maintain the relationship you have already established. Find common venues to spend time together, whether they are simple live Chat or Love Calls. Remember, what you cannot make up for in physical contact, you have to make up for with time and attention.

Arranging a meeting
Chinese women are human too, and they crave to be hugged and shown some degree of physical attention. This is why you cannot truly say you are a couple until you have met each other and spent some time together. On Chnlove site, the online environment can only get you so far, and you had better be prepared to make a few airplane trips if you really want to keep the relationship going.

Making it official
This is the ultimate goal of forming an online relationship with Chinese girls, and will prove to be a more permanent decision for the both of you. If you want to make the relationship official, then one of you has to go live with the other. This means either you will go to her country, or she will go to your country. It sounds simple enough, but you have to remember to arrange all the legal documents and financial obligations considering you are the man in this relationship. For more info, please read our older post: Chnlove Info: The Certificates Needed for Getting Married in China

Internet is one of the best places for people of varying cultures to meet together. Looking for love, friendship, and serious life partner? Find someone now on the world's largest Chinese dating site - Join Chnlove for free now!

Chnlove Tips: 8 Steps to Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

Being in a long distance relationship isn't easy because it requires a strong commitment. When your partner is miles away from you, it is very easy to let things go wrong and lead your long distance romance to an early death. However, for most of members on Chnlove and their Chinese girls, long distance relationship is quite common. So, what we should do to make such long distance relationship work and achieve a lasting love?

1) Establish an effective communication channel
The very first thing that you must do in a long distance relationship is to establish an effective communication channel. Here we would like to recommend Chnlove powerful EMF Mail Forwarding Service and LoveCall service. EMF Mail Forwarding Service is an integrated solution that combines mail correspondence, translation, dating guidance and alerting tools on a robust platform. You can break the immediate language barriers through this service; And if your Your Chinese girl want to hear your voice, you can give her a LoveCall. This service can let you manage all phone communications with your Chinese girl via translators on any of your existing phones.
2) Share Passions with your Chinese girl
The great thing about long-distance relationships is that you tend to get to know your girl much better than if you were physically together. As a result, you learn much more about her likes, dislikes, and passions. Find something your Chinese girl is passionate about that you can get involved with. For example, maybe your girl really loves tennis and you've never played tennis. Start taking tennis lessons and discuss it with her. Find passions that you both can share and it will invigorate your feelings and appreciation for the relationship.

3) Surprise your Chinese girl
Occasionally surprise you Chinese girl with cards, gifts and flower out of their expectation apart from your normal correspondence. Put your imagination to use and your girl will be sure to love your effort in keeping them happy. Sending the unexpected gifts to your Chinese girl will always spice up your distance relationship regardless how far your partner may be.

4) Plan to meet each other
There is nothing more important than planning to meet each other again at an interval of time throughout the period of your long distance relationship. This will help both you and your Chinese girl to catch up with each other over the things that you cannot do while apart. The anticipation of seeing each other again will always give you the excitement, hope and as well as eliminating the lonely feeling.

5) Spend time together while apart
Even though your Chine girl may live hours away, you can still experience "date nights" with her. For example, let's say you are both interested in seeing the latest blockbuster movie. Plan to go at the exact same time (coordinate your time zones) to see the movie then when it is over call each other to discuss it. It's fun knowing that your partner is doing the exact same thing as you at the exact same time. Even though you're apart, you're still sharing a moment "together".


6) Never make assumptions
Always be clear about your relationship with each other. Don't assume that your long-distance Chinese girl knows your feelings - share them. Good or bad, be clear about how you feel about the relationship. Assumptions kill many relationships, while clear communication helps relationships succeed. Let your girl clearly know your ambitions, fears, feelings, and desires. This will allow him/her to share something deeper with you as you both work together towards mastering your communication abilities.


7) Avoid jealousy and be trusting
There are no rooms for suspicion in a long distance relationship. In order for you to survive your distance relationship, you must learn to trust your Chinese girl whole heartedly. A single suspicion will break the bond you have for each other and it is a beginning of the end if you start to suspect your girl at any point of your long distance relationship.

8) Establish the relationship rules and standards
Create your own set of relationship standards that both you and your Chinese girl have mutually agreed upon. That creates a common goal for you to work towards, developing a strong relationship whether you are together or apart. For example, agree to disagree, accept each other as you are, practice trust and honesty, strive towards compromise and self-sacrifice, seek spiritual unity, and maintain open communication.

Just as some people say, "If you're in love with somebody, you will swim the stream, you will climb the mountain, you will slay the dragon..." We believe, the long distance relationship between you and our Chinese girl member can work if you put the time and effort into making it work.

Never miss the chance of dating a real Chinese girl. Join Chnlove!

Chnlove: Love is in the air for Lantern Festival

Lantern festival (Yuanxiao in Chinese), this last day of the Chinese New Year Season is a day for lovers.

February is the month for love in 2011. In days gone by, Chnlove members celebrated Valentine's day by exchanging love cards, flowers and chocolates, and today, Chinese people are celebrating the traditional Lantern Festival. Lantern Festival falls on the 15th day of the 1st lunar month (usually in February in the Gregorian calendar, and that night is the first full moon of the year. Originally, Lantern festival is a day for family members to gather together because that is the last day of the Chinese spring festival Season, but in recent years it has taken on a similar significance to Valentine's Day in Europe, it is a day for lovers and couples.

Traditionally, the Lantern Festival once served as a day for matchmaking. It was one of the few nights in ancient times without a strict curfew. At that day, Chinese girls can come out - chaperoned, of course! - and be seen by eligible single men, then matchmakers acted busily in hopes of pairing couples. You know in ancient China when women's feet were bound, it was often the one time when she could appear in public with unbound feet. Of course, these restrictions no longer exist in modern society, but there is still a hint of romance in the air at the Lantern Festival celebrations. Parks always prepare lanterns and flowers, creating a very romantic atmosphere in a very Chinese way, and people also light lanterns in different colors and designs for others to admire, etc.

Other popular activities at this festival include eating tangyuan, a sweet glutinous rice dumpling served in a sweet or savory soup, and guessing lantern riddles, often messages of love.

Hopefully you can going to China and spend a traditional lantern festival with you favorite Chinese girl.

Spring Festival is coming... Never forget to give surprise to your Chinese Girl.

Everyone knows that he Spring Festival is the most important festival for the Chinese people, just like Christmas in the West. In Spring Festival, all people living away from home will go back and all the family members getting together. So we'd like to remind all of our sincere gentlemen, please do not forget this biggest time. It's not just about celebration of Chinese New Year - It's also a chance for wonderful surprise to enable your Chinese girl to share!

Add here, we will share some information about Chinese Spring Festival, which may give you more common topics to talk about with Chinese girls:

Strictly speaking, the Spring Festival starts every year in the early days of the 12th lunar month and will last till the mid 1st lunar month of the next year. Of them, the most important days are Spring Festival Eve and the first three days. The Chinese government now stipulates people have seven days off for the Chinese Lunar New Year.

The Spring Festival originated from the people's sacrifice to gods and ancestors at the end of an old year and the beginning of a new one. Many customs accompany the Spring Festival and some are still followed today.

The 23rd day of the 12th lunar month is called Preliminary Eve. At this time, people offer sacrifice to the kitchen god. Now however, most families make delicious food to enjoy themselves.

After the Preliminary Eve, people begin preparing for the coming New Year. This is called Seeing the New Year in. Store owners are busy then as everybody goes out to purchase necessities for the New Year. Materials not only include edible oil, rice, flour, chicken, duck, fish and meat, but also fruit, candies and kinds of nuts. What's more, new clothes and shoes for the children as well as gifts for the elderly, friends and relatives, are all on the list of purchasing.

Besides, for the festival, people completely clean the indoors and outdoors of their homes as well as their clothes, bedclothes and all their utensils, decorate their windows with paper cuts, place New Year's couplets on the frame of their front door, highlighting Chinese calligraphy with black characters on red paper, and pin up New Year's paintings in their living rooms. In all, an atmosphere of rejoicing and festivity features largely.

At last, on the occasion of the Spring Festival, we wish all of our members are Happiness, Health, Peace, Prosperity and Success throughout the new year 2011.

Spring Festival Gifts Recommendation: http://www.chnlove.com/Gift/Occasion-2.html

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Happy New Year

Dear all honorable members,

As 2010 comes to a close and we enter the joyous holiday season, this is a good opportunity to share with you our happy experiences on Chnlove.

In the past year, we have had offered valuable services to our sincere clients. We redesigned and remade the member administration section so that members can easily better their dating experience on different sites operated by us. We also launched LoveCall on Chnlove back in December, so that our members can communicate with their Chinese girls directly. To help people keep in touch in the new year, we’re extending our communication services for all of 2011. In case you haven’t tried yet, you may simply go to Chnlove and place a LoveCall.

Many sincere clients shared with us their views and suggestions for the development of services in particular and to communication services in general. We deeply appreciate your suggestions, for which we would like to thank all of you.

Chnlove remains committed to investigating and understanding what makes long-term relationships successful by conducting ongoing, rigorous research to keep the matchmaking model up-to-date and relevant for international markets. Our clients continue to serve as trusted advisors play a vital role in the business, service improvement and inspiring millions of clients with their strong belief in the power of healthy, long-term relationships.

May I wish you a Happy New Year!


Best wishes,
Chnlove Team